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Reports grouped by the year in which the intimate relationship started.
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(58)
Unfulfilled need for closeness and tenderness
6 years
coming-out
gay
police
latency period
therapy
seduction by the boy
trauma
Since I was 13, I knew I was attracted to older guys
Hal, 13 years
coming-out
school
teacher
abuse
And you know what, I'm grateful for Father Michael
Milo, 13 years
age of consent
abuse
coming-in
I was in no way traumatized
Anthony, 14 years
girls
death of the man
secret
On the farm
11 years
abuse
romance
inquisition
They made love for hours
Stephan, 11 years
abuse
alcohol
runaway
girls
Always looking for someone to go to bed with
13 years
gay rights
seduction by the boy
abuse
I really liked older men but none would have me
Larry, 15 years
injustice
judiciary system
Consent
I’m still grateful he initiated me in the most loving way
Gjalt van Ommen, 15 years
initiation
seduction by the boy
supression
punishment
age of consent
Martijn
When A Boy Wants A Man
Sergio, 10 years
priest
confession
masturbation
altar boy
catholic
I felt this was very nice
Hong, 12 years
tourism
Report of a victim
Chris, 14 years
boy scouts
punishment
victim
authorities
police
So he just wanted to have sex. And in a sense, maybe, I guess I lucked out.
Aziz, 10 years
coming-out
cultural differences
He was very loving and caring
14 years
age of consent
prejudice
This man saved my life
11 years
abuse
victim
neglect
studies
He was a very loving, caring, considerate, romantic lover
12 years
law
teacher
love
parents
His house was like an oasis
Jeff, 13 years
coming-in
sleeping
seduction by the boy
girls
I was free to say 'YES!!!!'
Siao, 7 years
liberal upbringing
abuse
More than they would like to
politics
gay
KTW
media
Kurt Hartmann
The naked play
Ambar, 8 years
incest
nudity
worship
It isn't always bad
14 years
priest
monk
first time
Camping trip
13 years
camping
gay
Loved and in love
14 years
sex education
A family friend
12 years
family
married
gay
curiosity
first time
Best sex I’ve ever had
16 years
subway
parade
He asked if I had a girlfriend
16 years
neighbor
mentor
girlfriend
identity
He had a real thing for redheads like me
15 years
postman
undies
redhead
friendship
He later felt cheap because it was a stranger
15 years
cinema
cheap
college
He wanted youth and I wanted age!
16 years
classified
conservative
public
He was a complete stranger
17 years
stranger
vacation
He was like an older brother to me
16 years
coming-out
love
massage
society
I felt a little used
17 years
vacation
beach
first time
family
I knew I was gay before
16 years
book store
toilet
gay
I met him through friends at the lake
17 years
lake
hobbies
friends
I practically had to force sex on him
12 years
teacher
seduction by the boy
secret
I said ‘yes’ so we got off on each other
13 years
brother
gay
I was pleased, glad, and scared
13 years
toilet
shopping mall
society
secret
I was thoroughly infatuated with him
14 years
party
love
school
It was with a stranger
14 years
stranger
affection
masturbation
No one ever suspected us because he was a drag queen
17 years
military
drag queen
Rebellion was my motivation
16 years
neighbor
married
guilt
rebellion
friendship
So I let him take the lead...
17 years
neighbor
married
lead
gay
The man was a boy scout leader
14 years
boy scouts
masturbation
opportunity
We met at a floral shop
17 years
floral shop
seduction by the boy
first time
love
We met at a shopping mall
16 years
stranger
shopping mall
We were in love and it was a very affectionate relationship
17 years
love
college
We were in same tent
13 years
camping
secret
I liked him
hair
I love him and I know that he loves me
Darrel, 11 years
bisexual
relationship
love
The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me
Greg, 12 years
friendship
pride
Boxing instructor
8 years
sports
boxing
Sex is wonderful in any form
George, 11 years
NAMBLA
I was not molested. I was loved and I feel I am better for it.
Brian, 13 years
summer camp
homesick
It Shouldn't Be a Crime to Make Love
Bryan, 12 years
prison
parents
rape
Turning point
13 years
seduction by the boy
love
I knew that I was doing something that I was not supposed to
Sander, 11 years
guilt
discoveries
The attic and the waiter
7 years
waiter
Sexuality is desirable, or even necessary, at any age
masturbation
love
seduction by the boy
1980s
(25)
A lot of kids would be better off if there were more people like Stan
Joe, 10 years
girls
own children
mentorship
gossip
I was incredibly lucky
Spike, 15 years
Armut
Intellektualität
Computer
Mentorschaft
Schuld
Intergenerational sex saved my life
13 years
religion
gay
abuse
intellectuality
coming-in
coming-out
Consent
For my son, he's the best friend
Tobias, 12 years
interview
parents
vacation
jelousy
girls
school
self-confidence
half-orphan
I and especially Josef need support
16 years
pen pals
sanctions
I find it stupid that these things are punished with jail
13 years
parents
playground
masturbation
sanctions
Love means a lot to me
10 years
parents
love
boredom
No Way Out
13 years
children's home
sanctions
discrimination
parents
foster parents
Violence from the parents, affection from a stranger
André, 5 years
violence
kisses
grandparents
moving
secret
interview
We loved each other as everyone loves
Thomas, 11 years
interview
brother
outsider
masturbation
secret
jealousy
girls
separation
For The First Time in My Life I Felt Wanted
Gabriel, 12 years
hustling
priest
girls
Consent
violence
He Makes Me Glad I'm Gay
Ed, 14 years
hustling
gay
parents
I Need My Lovers
Tyrone, 15 years
gay
school
coming-in
It Was Me Who Started It
Frank, 13 years
sports
girlfriend
Man, What a Feeling!
Eric, 9 years
hustling
travels
married
Thank God for Boy-Lovers
Victor, 12 years
hustling
violence
rape
We Should Be Able to Have the Relationships We Want
George, 12 years
hustling
conversations
Without guys like Mark, I would probably be dead today
Carl, 12 years
alcohol
poverty
neglect
violence
adoption
society
pride
initiation
"Air Guitar"
Anton, 14 years
sports
craving
despair
It gave me an advantage over my peers
Erik, 13 years
pornography
masturbation
trust
What I'm doing is very good
Wouter, 12 years
Consent
intitiative
friends
parents
He understands me a lot better than my own mother
David, 13 years
interview
girls
gay
discrimination
secret
To have sex with men? It's not just fun - it's wonderful!
Peter, 6 years
hustling
girls
client
drugs
We started with this great kingdom
Stefan, 10 years
mother
interveiw
police
jealousy
We were two people in perfect harmony
Martin, 13 years
stepfather
punishment
girls
1960s
(10)
I kissed him in the pub
Simon, 12 years
hustling
poverty
parents
girls
siblings
school
interview
Björn cannot imagine ever having sex with another man
Björn, 11 years
youth work
secret
jealousy
parents
girls
school
seduction by the boy
You have to be careful with relationships
Jörg, 7 years
neglect
surrogate parents
curiosity
jealousy
Who is to say that I could not consent to it just because I was 10?
Jo, 10 years
teacher
intellectuality
love
abuse
Consent
I just could not see the problem
10 years
bike trip
love
friendship
sex education
I was not troubled in the least
13 years
friendship
first time
It was not a normal situation
14 years
Consent
satisfaction
marriage
The initiative always came from me
14 years
seduction by the boy
love
mentorship
On the right road at last
16 years
first time
gay
He knew exactly what he wanted but not how to go about getting it
15 years
uncle
seduction by the boy
coercion
1970s
(9)
Such a Relationship is Very Beneficial
Dan, 10 years
friendship
travel
abuse
Children choose their own relationships
various years
parents
children's home
foster children
runaway
power
secret
For children it is probably very nice to have such a friend
Rene, 9 years
coach
parents
secret
Yes, I'm a pedophile
various years
music
teacher
siblings
parents
secret
transgression
And sometimes I make love with him
Thijs, 9 years
nudism
school
parents
mobbing
It's very nice, but I also want to do it with a girl
Theo, 13 years
parents
permission
fear
soccer
insults
You discover for yourself what's right and what's wrong
Gerrit, 12 years
childen's rights
parents
stigma
bullying
education
girls
I was more in tune with myself after that
Keith, 13 years
married
love
seduction by the boy
Consent
Full with desire and love
14 years
love
lust
desire
seduction by the boy
camp
1979
(6)
That’s when I realized he was a pedophile
Jason, 14 years
getting older
religion
catholic
gay
coming-out
Not everything that is punishable is criminal
Amanitus, 8 years
punishability
gay
coming-out
A priest on his knees
Augusten Burroughs, 14 years
priest
catholic
toilet
compassion
secret
I was not traumatized
Dan Savage, 15 years
abuse
After all, I have to live in this society
Peter, 9 years
photography
sanctions
parents
pornography
I love you
Jerome, 11 years
love
boarding school
masturbation
1961
(5)
Bastiaan and his gym teacher
Bastiaan, 12 years
sports
neglect
secret
death of the man
Under pressure I told my family about what was happening
Howard Miller, 11 years
abuse
family
society
gay
A friendship that continues to this day
James Dubro, 14 years
parents
seduction by the boy
pride
secret
Looking at the boats
Ivo, 13 years
masturbation
discovery
I can never say all that I owe to Samuel
Guy Hocquenghem, 15 years
intellectuality
illness
philosophy
teacher
school
1970
(4)
I never did anything I did not want to do
Ivo van Hove, 12 years
teacher
catholic
boarding school
intellectuality
injustice
My Life as a Boy
William Ireland, 11 years
Verführung durch den Jungen
Handwerker
Herzschmerz
Eltern
Verantwortung
Verlangen
What I felt I ought to feel was that I was abused
Stephen Fry, 13 years
school
discrimination
abuse
therapy
interview
He didn’t have to drag me there
15 years
grief
death of the man
suicide
surrogate father
1973
(4)
An overwhelming, beautiful thing
Joop, 13 years
love
death of the man
parents
It's high time that people come to their senses
Wim van de Braam, 13 years
vacation
I knew I was gay and I wanted to go out and get laid
Scott O'Hara, 12 years
pornography
emancipation
Am I the only one?
12 years
gay
coming-in
CSD
gay movement
1982
(4)
One rainy afternoon
Victor, 15 years
vacation
I willingly gave myself to him
9 years
alcohol
parents
violence
neglect
guilt
I went to see him, simply because I liked him
Stephan, 11 years
pornography
photography
police
friendship
girls
parents
Boys Help Men, Too
12 years
mutuality
love
1940s
(3)
That was our declaration of love
Tadi, 8 years
teacher
seduction
boarding school
priest
intellectuality
poems
I had a very good time with paedophiles
Holger, 13 years
boyscouts war
religion
interview
A psychological test did not reveal anything remarkable
11 years
Consent
pychological test
1948
(3)
All you have to do is talk to people on both sides
Samuel, 6 years
Janitor
touching
gay
coming-in
Consent
I lusted and instigated more than most
William Percy, 14 years
gay
masculinity
seduction by the boy
He would have approved a similar relationship for his sons
Denver, 14 years
crime
education
1950
(3)
I thought he was pretty attractive
George Takei, 13 years
summer camp
camp counselor
interview
Maybe the damage was all on his side
Richard Dawkins, 9 years
teacher
groping
death of the man
suicidce
A childhood full of curiosity
Wolf Vogel, 8 years
post-war
soldier
playing doctor
friendship
youth group
coach
teacher
seduction by the boy
1967
(3)
Let's not stage a witch hunt now
Josef Haslinger, 12 years
monastery
boarding school
catholic
priest
It's a shame that you can only look back with regret
Ted van Lieshout, 11 years
love
transgression
boy protects man
My gratitude towards him keeps growing with every year
Martin, 17 years
vacation
intellectuality
pen friend
first orgasm
late bloomer
secret
divorce
masturbation
surrogate father
separation
death of the man
1980
(3)
Jorge Gonzalez admits: First sex with 13
Jorge Gonzalez, 13 years
Cross-Dressing
falsches Alter
I knew I was different
Chris, 7 years
crime
education
My parents found out and prohibited me from seeing him
Bill, 13 years
ban
parents
sanctions
Consent
1990
(3)
I was absolutely addicted to cuddling
Lukas, 9 years
swimming pool
half-orphan
alcohol
lake
girls
seduction by the boy
death of the man
I felt a lot of guilt because I was supposed to testify in court
Jens, 13 years
trauma
punishment
guilt
prison
It built his personality
James, 11 years
parents
seduction by the boy
pride
secret
1924
(2)
How did a 5-year-old know?
Clarence, 5 years
handyman
seduction by the boy
The Private Tutor
Heinz, 11 years
guilt
teacher
intellectuality
1933
(2)
It was my own choice and it felt great
Guus, 9 years
cultural differences
doctor
age of consent
I wanted more!
13 years
war
family
bedwetting
art
death of the man
guilt
1934
(2)
My First Love and the First Love I Lost
Gavin, 10 years
prep-school
teacher
parents
boy protects man
separation
disappointment
Sex at the candy store
Allen Ginsberg, 8 years
candy
1953
(2)
Yours, with all my Love, David xoxoxoxoxo (1,000,000 times)
David Hemmings, 12 years
education
surrogate father
friendship
love
He didn't do me any harm
Pim Fortuyn, 5 years
politics
abuse
1955
(2)
Even then, he had no shame
Sylvester, 8 years
singer
church
gossip
The "Stefan Report"
Stefan, 11 years
orphan
love
intellectuality
separation
seduction by the boy
secret
pedo-hunt
violence
compassion
girls
gratitude
teacher
death of the man
1957
(2)
10, 11, 12 in Chicago...
Pluto, 10 years
catholic
masturbation
Consent
Lots of love
10 years
sex education
1960
(2)
I would follow hot-looking men onto the bus
John Mitzel, 12 years
seduction by the boy
gay movement
We're going to fly, spy
Engelchen, 11 years
children's home
soldier
post-war
music
1963
(2)
Do other kids react to it like I did?
Frank, 9 years
trauma
abuse
victim
He took me seriously for who I was
Dirkjan, 13 years
love
mentorship
jealousy
psychological problems
coming-out
1974
(2)
I used to get him to do risky things
Philip, 10 years
seduction by the boy
masturbation
intellectuality
A Gay Man Speaks Out
12 years
sanktions
gay
love
parents
1975
(2)
You're supposed to call it abus
Wim, 10 years
religion
abuse
gay
I'm the living proof
Kurt, 13 years
seduction by the boy
grateful
1984
(2)
I was ridiculed by my peers and constantly degraded
Johnny, 13 years
police
pornography
fotography
mobbing
sanctions
I thought it was against the law to be gay!
Jes Harrison, 16 years
gay movement
coming-out
parents
suppression
emancipation
1989
(2)
I will miss him immeasurably
Wade Robson, 7 years
music
Michael Jackson
abuse
love
court case
He felt he had control over the man
Dennis, 8 years
siblings
seduction by the boy
1990s
(2)
Diligent about safe sex
Dan, 14 years
upbringing
education
gay
Bars in front of the window
Jonah, 10 years
threat
love
prison
1995
(2)
Why should we be treated like criminals?
Lee, 12 years
gay
victim
abuse
violence
mobbing
authorities
self-determination
Sex is really beautiful with my friend
Dennis, 12 years
sports
baseball
seduction by the boy
love
2002
(2)
I've always done what they say you shouldn't do
Tommy, 12 years
girls
secret
parents
authorities
crime
Until the positive feelings end up being transformed into negative ones
Zven, 14 years
intellectuality
coming-out
seduction by the boy
abuse
disadvantages
2003
(2)
He was very different from the pedosexuals on the internet
Max, 13 years
internet
seduction by the boy
He is my dad, boyfriend, best friend, brother, all in one
Jesse, 12 years
adoption
father
school
homelessness
1910s
(1)
I always looked forward to Wednesday afternoons
7 years
gay
girls
attic
1916
(1)
The pleasure was mutual
Tom, 12 years
school
catholic
seduction by the boy
1920s
(1)
These men were lucky
13 years
Consent
Harmfulness
1925
(1)
In memorial to Matt, I offer you my love
Harry, 14 years
work
adult
gay
first time
self-dependency
1930
(1)
And boy, the fun I had
Daniel Carleton, 7 years
cultural differences
abuse
punishment
prison
1930s
(1)
Not always bad for boys
catholic
priest
1935
(1)
He was overtly hedonistic about sex
Ewald, 10 years
masturbation
hedonism
pychiatry
seduction by the boy
1939
(1)
The relationship was quite superficial
13 years
masturbation
love
seduction by the boy
1942
(1)
A full sexual expression of real feelings
Joel Grey, 12 years
theater
secret
society
1944
(1)
For a lost soldier
Jeroen, 12 years
war
soldier
foster parents
separation
1947
(1)
Yard Work
Ronald, 14 years
teacher
depression
1950s
(1)
I always had the feeling that I was doing something wrong
14 years
marriage
family
parents
society
1951
(1)
Today I would be labeled a sexually abused child
Martin Seligman, 9 years
bum
kisses
abuse
1956
(1)
They amused me far more than the average geography teacher
Chris Brand, 13 years
boys' choir
intellectuality
mentorship
1958
(1)
I've known since I was very young that I please homosexuals
Gérard Depardieu, 10 years
hustling
violence
1964
(1)
Not a victim of abuse
8 years
coming-out
Kurt Hartmann
1965
(1)
An industrial representative
Burt, 13 years
school
masturbation
poverty
neglect
1966
(1)
He was probably a paedophile!
Neil, 9 years
TV
gay movement
political correctness
first time
1969
(1)
News coverage about 'pedophilia' is way too negative
Maurits Reijnen, 6 years
precocious
letter
media
parents
bedwetting
school
1971
(1)
He became a second father figure
Christopher, 9 years
mentorship
intellectuality
poverty
surrogate father
1972
(1)
I don't believe that my desire is stronger now
Alcide, 11 years
tenderness
prank
puberty
1978
(1)
Loving Men - An Interview with Mark Moffett
Mark Moffett, 13 years
intellectuality
seduction by the boy
abuse
gay
age of consent
incest
independency
parents
1985
(1)
In the beginning my mother was shocked
Johnny, 12 years
surrogate father
police
pornography
travels
parents
photography
1986
(1)
I pulled off my little game with him
Mark Medlock, 8 years
seduction by the boy
swimming pool
gay
coming-out
1987
(1)
De la Boca Chiquito
Luis Miguelito, 11 years
hustling
poverty
school
gay
Argentina
1988
(1)
Yes, do it
John, 8 years
secret
Consent
1991
(1)
I Don't Understand Why This Is Not Allowed
Serge, 12 years
secret
parents
love
surrogate parents
1994
(1)
Sexual Abuse from a Victim
John Tate, 7 years
abuse
grandfather
society
psychological problems
victim
1997
(1)
It seemed very natural
John, 13 years
interview
power
death of the man
neglect
greece
intellectuality
2004
(1)
I am not a victim. I was a willing participant.
15 years
victim
military
teacher
school
2006
(1)
He is stating that he was not raped
13 years
internet
Consent
police
vigilance
2008
(1)
Opinion of a victim
12 years
secret
school
coming-out
therapy
victim
separation
60er
(1)
It was a wonderful time
Hans, 9 years
love
secret
pocket money
abuse